5 Common Mistakes You Must Avoid In Relationship

Everyone in this life deserves true love however after we reach out to individuals we want to spend the rest of our lives with, we begin to face difficulties and sometimes bad experiences from our own decisions. 😞

The truth of the matter is that a 'perfect couple does not exist' but there are key focuses that we should deal with. 

 What are some basic mistakes we can stay away from in our relationship? 

1. Poor Communication: Relationships in which there is a lack of communication leads to lot of problems. They can cause misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and even resentment. They can make it difficult to decide on things as a couple and have good and bad days. It's good to be honest and open with the one you are with, and you should be willing to talk about difficult topics in a respectful and non-confrontational manner. It's important to talk regularly and make time for meaningful conversations, be open to compromise, and be willing to listen actively to each other. 

2. Taking each other for granted:  We all take our relationships for granted to some degree. We assume that they will always be there for us, that they will be smooth sailing, and that we will never have to worry about them. But what if that's not the case? What if our relationship is crumbling, and we don't even realize it? This normally happens when partners have more than one relationship where they presume others deserve their time better than their partners and that's not healthy either. If we're not taking care of our relationship, then it's likely that we're not taking care of ourselves. 

It’s important to make time for your partner and show them that you value their presence in your life.

 3. Comparison: when you compare your relationship to someone else’s, you feel like you're not good enough or that you’re not living up to your partner’s expectations, or that you’re not meeting theirs'. Therefore, it is damaging to your relationship. Comparison can also lead to resentment. If you feel like your partner is always comparing you to others, you’re likely to start to resent them. And resentment is never a healthy emotion. When you compare your relationship to others, you’re also likely wasting your time. It makes sense to compare your relationship to someone else’s only if you have a realistic idea of what the relationship is like as compared with theirs. It’s very important to remember that your relationship is unique. 

 4. Not making time for each other. If you're not spending enough time with your partner, it's likely that your relationship is suffering. It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life and let your relationship take a backseat. If you're not careful, you can find yourself drifting apart from your partner. In order to maintain a healthy and strong relationship, it's important to make time for each other on a regular basis. It's important to make time for each other because quality time is crucial for keeping your connection strong. If you're not making time for each other, it's only a matter of time before your relationship starts to suffer. So make an effort to put your partner first and keep your connection strong. 

 5. Neglecting to laugh. When was the last time you truly let yourself go and had a good belly laugh? If you can't remember, it might be time to take a step back and reassess your relationship. It's not uncommon for couples to stop laughing together as the years go by. Life gets serious and we often forget to take the time to just enjoy each other's company. But laughter is an important part of any relationship and neglecting it can lead to some serious consequences. Couples who don't laugh together are more likely to experience conflict and feel less satisfied with their relationship. Laughter brings people together and helps them bond. It's a way of showing love and appreciation for your partner. If you're not laughing together, take some time to reevaluate your relationship. Make an effort to find things to laugh about, even if it's just silly little things. It's important to keep the laughter alive in your relationship! Life comes with a lot of surprises and you need extra effort in building a healthy relationship.

This is the number one piece of advice from experts and real women alike. Communication is key in any relationship, but it's especially important in a long-term relationship. You and your partner should be able to talk about anything and everything, and you should feel comfortable doing so. If you're not communicating effectively, it can lead to problems down the road.

Be yourself 💪🚦

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